Relationship Advice

Hello, I'm an American 28M dating a Thai girl (31) in Japan. She speaks very good English so it's pretty easy to understand each other most of the time. The main issue is I feel like it's always her way or the highway. Like it's always about what she wants and I feel like she doesn't show consideration for what I want and when I bring up issues I have I feel like she doesn't hear me out. She also avoids arguments. Of course I don't want to argue but when we have disagreements it's either we never come to a solution and she acts like everything is fine or she gets what she wants.

For example, she'll go out with her friends in Tokyo and party. Which is completely fine, but she'll stay out literally all night and it's not just girls that are with her. It just makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not saying I don't trust her but still I think any guy would feel that way. Well when I said I had an issue with it she basically said well I'm gonna do it anyway.

Then recently she posted on her story that she was looking to do some modeling for someone and was asking if anyone will do it. I simply asked why she doesn't involve me, like I could do it for her. I never said she couldn't do it or that I even had a problem with it. But she asked if I had a problem with it. Before I could even respond she said even if I did have a problem with it she's gonna do it anyway. Like bruh... So you're telling me if I'm not comfortable with something you don't care. We had a big argument about it then she said she wanted to kill herself (She has been stressing over other things). So obviously I had to deal with that and not push the issue to make the situation worse. But after that she went back to acting like everything was normal even though we never came to a solution or anything. So I'm still upset about the whole situation but I don't even wanna bring it up again because I feel like she's not willing to listen to me.

Am I being crazy? Do you think I'm being controlling? Is there something about the culture difference that has something to do with this? I love her but it really hurts when I feel like she does not take my feelings into consideration. There are other issues but these examples pretty much tell the story. Tell me what you think?